It was impossible to associate failure with him ... 想不到他会失败。
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Don ' t associate failure and negative feelings with getting a " no . " save those feelings for not knowing where you stand with someone . then you find that it happens less 不要一被拒绝就觉得失败和难受。不知道对方的立场才应该觉得失败和难受。勇敢面对拒绝,你会发现模糊不清的情况就会越来越少。